A woman can really become a wild animal possessed with lust. That is only if she has been aroused to her threshold. If you get a few basics right, be ready to be absolutely blown away with the stunning sex that is to follow. Remember, women are not like men – they take time to get turned on. Follow these basic steps to stimulate her to her optimal level, and then be ready to witness what you could never imagine your woman do before.
1. Slow it down.
It’s not a race, men. You don’t have a finish to cross, or a flight to catch. Remember that while we can’t wait to ‘get in’, women love foreplay. A lot! Start slow, real slow and gradually take it forward. Gently touch her arm, her belly, the nape of her neck, give it a light lick if you like. Keep kissing her every now and then, it’ll only make her go crazy. The wait, and the heat of the moment will absolutely make her feel like an animal possessed with lust. When the moment comes, pounce. 😉
2. Give her a sneak preview.
Give her a preview of the things to come. Run your fingers around her belly button, lightly lick a nipple, run your finger against her clitoris. Give her a teaser of the things that will follow but most importantly, know when to stop. Take control of things. She will beg you to go ahead, but don’t. Make her wait. The longer you make her wait, the more aroused she gets. But don’t wait too long.
3. Lots of soft kisses.
The softer you kiss her, the more passionate the situation will get. Making it a little sloppy doesn’t hurt your cause either, but make sure she knows that you’re being sloppy with your saliva purposely because it can go against your favour if she thinks otherwise. This will set her up for you, and she will take you in as her lover, not just a toy to get her off eventually.
4. Nibble a little.
Nibble a little between your soft kisses. Bite her in her erogenous zones lightly, very lightly. Bite her earlobes, her lower lip every now and then to mix things up. If you don’t go too hard on her, and make it through with the right amount of pressure, you will have her squirming in pleasure in no time.
5. Talk dirty.
Your lover likes it when you talk dirty with her. The rules of propriety don’t apply in the bedroom, so you can go all out and talk dirty to her by asking her questions about how she’s feeling, how bad she wants it, how naughty she has been all week, how you’ve been waiting to make her yours in bed, how you want things to be done etc. But remember, both of you need to be very comfortable with your sexuality for this to work. In fact, check if she likes dirty talk before. You don’t want her crying while you have a boner, do you?